N. Bernice Paventy

N. Bernice "Totsie" Paventy (Wilson)

Monday, June 13th, 1932 - Tuesday, October 27th, 2020
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N. Bernice “Totsie” (Wilson) Paventy
October 27, 2020
N. Bernice “Totsie” Paventy, 88, of Syracuse passed away on Tuesday. She was a resident of Syracuse most of her life. Totsie was a life member of the Mattydale Post 3146 Ladies Auxiliary and a Friend of the Salina Free Library. She is predeceased by her husband, Robert Paventy in 1979, and her eleven brothers and sisters. Survivors include her children, Marilyn Paventy of California, John J. (Jackie) Paventy of Onondaga Hill and Anita (David) Holmes of Constantia; her seven grandchildren; two great-grandchildren. A graveside service will be held on Saturday 11:00 a.m. at Assumption Cemetery. Contributions may be made in Totsie’s honor to the Crohn’s and Colitis Foundation, 2117 Buffalo Road Suite 299, Rochester, New York 14624 or to the American Cancer Society, P.O. Box 22478, Oklahoma City, OK 73123.
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Service Details

  • Service

    Saturday, October 31st, 2020 | 11:00am
    Saturday, October 31st, 2020 11:00am
    Assumption Cemetery
    2401 Court Street
    SYRACUSE, NY 13208
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  • Interment

    Assumption Cemetery
    2401 Court Street
    SYRACUSE, NY 13208
    Get Directions: View Map | Text | Email


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Shane Zehr + Elizabeth Gool

Posted at 08:00pm
"Has ears that truly listen, Arms that always hold, Love that's never ending, And a heart that's made of gold" Grandma B is forever loved
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Susan Cottet

Posted at 06:34pm
Pretty Momma B, we will miss you and your shenanigans. Always happy to see us with a witty comment. You always made us laugh from the gut. Rest in Peace.
Booby and Susie Cottet


Posted at 04:07pm
I was so blessed to call you my mother in law, we hadsome great times, and memories. I will miss you everyday, I love you. Your “Favorite “ daughter in law. ❤️

Tim Tom

Posted at 07:26pm
Thoughts and prayers to the entire family
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