Mary “Elaine” Wheeler

Mary “Elaine” Wheeler

Monday, May 23rd, 1938 - Tuesday, May 19th, 2020
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God saw you getting tired and no cure was meant to be, so he put his arms around you and whispered, “come to me”.

Mary “Elaine” Wheeler
May 23, 1938 - May 19, 2020
Mary “Elaine” Wheeler, 81, of Clay passed away at home on Tuesday, May 19th. Elaine was a lifelong resident of Clay and a graduate of North Syracuse High School. She was employed for many years with Monroe Abstract & Title and later with Penn Can Mall Management as well as Wilorite Management Group. She was a member of Immanuel Lutheran Church. Elaine was well-loved and a wonderful wife, mother, grandma and friend to many. She was an amazing listener with a compassionate spirit who truly cared about family and friends. Elaine was an avid sports fan, especially of NY Yankees baseball and SU Orange basketball.
Predeceased by her parents Frank and Mary Mederios. Survivors include her loving husband, of 63 years, John Wheeler Sr.; her children, Deb (Tom) Ricciuto, Carol (Rick) DiOrio and John, Jr. (Jackie) Wheeler; her grandchildren, Nate (Alyssa), Ben, Anna and John, III and her brother, John (Joann) Mederios.
Services will be held at a future date at Immanuel Lutheran Church, 4947 State Route 31, Clay, NY.
Many thanks to everyone who provided love and support during her illness. A special thank you to Hospice for your incredible compassion, warm tender care and dedicated support.
Contributions can be made to Hospice of Central New York or Immanuel Lutheran Church.
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    Immanuel Lutheran Church
    4947 State Route 31
    CLAY, NY 13041
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  • Interment

    Pine Plains Cemetery
    8686 Henry Clay Blvd.
    CLAY, NY 13041
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